Votoka believes that all women who suffer from obstetric fistula need emotional healing as well as physical healing. Obstetric fistula. There can be so much loss involved in these two words. The loss of a child. A stillborn birth from a harrowing situation. The loss of a husband. Abandoned and despised because of incontinence. The loss of family and friends. Not wanted. Not valued. Ridiculed. The loss of church and community. Not welcome. The loss of fertility. The loss of in